THOUGHT RECORD
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Strength of Belief
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Resulting Emotion
Behavior
If my friend's anxiety was telling them the same thought/belief, what would I tell them?
Can I say that this statement is 100% true, without any exceptions?
Does this always apply? Are there conditions under which it might not?
Am I jumping to conclusions or assuming what other people are thinking?
What are some other possibilities that would explain the situation?
Is it really necessary to blame or judge anyone (including myself)? What if I don't?
What is the likelihood or probability of this happening? (for real)
How many times has it happened to any of the hundreds of people I know personally?
What factors am I not taking into account that help protect me or lessen the chance of me being harmed by the worst case scenario?
Is there a gray area to this statement (not just a black and white thing)?
Am I only seeing extremes? (E.g. good or bad, success or failure)
Visualize a spectrum, imagine what a person/situation on each extreme (and one perfectly in the middle) looks like, and compare myself to them.
Just because something may be true of this specific person or situation, does that mean I can generalize based on it?
What evidence do I have that this is the rule rather than the exception?
Is this based on fact or feeling? Have my feelings ever turned out to be wrong?
Is my expectation for this outcome realistic or even possible?
How much control do I actually have in this situation?
Am I taking responsibility for things over which I have no control?
Am I ignoring aspects of the situation that I can control?
How often is my anxiety actually correct?
What evidence is there that conflicts with this belief?
Challenges to My Cognition
Alternate Viewpoints:
Worst Possible Outcome
Best Possible Outcome
Most Realistic Outcome
Rational Response:
"Even though I feel that...
...is true, the
reality
is that..."
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Strength of Belief in Negative Cognition
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What Should I Do Now?